though it's post xmas accompanied by sweet visa bills...but it's still my birthday month!
So here i am 33yrs old in less than 24 hours.
Looking back at my most important lesson this year....
"off with their head"seems a little harsh or a lot harsh, let me explain:
I am prone to being a Worry Wart, wanting to make all parties happy, i exhaust myself trying to please everyone...now i realize the people that i was so worried about, the people or situations i put so much emotional energy into, they really don't care and that's cool. My bad.
So rule of thumb: if they don't care why do i?
Answer: simple, i want everyone to like me, all parties to be happy & no confrontation... ever.
not reality. so "off with their head" meaning forget about it, don't linger there, just move on.
I am a self confessed linger'er.
I like to draw out the anger, pain, complain even throw in a little blame:)
Why? i don't know it's the way i operate sometimes.
so this year,
is about Bliss and focusing in on the people and the things that bring me joy, life is too short to be a Worry Wart.
My formula for Bliss:
- moving
- be closer to my family and friends this year
- I am changing my job up
- cooking with Sir Jamie Oliver
- study, work at things i luv
- be an awesome wife and mom to be...soon i hope:)
33...Bliss Baby.
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